Should I Go to a Catholic Wedding Outside the Church?

What do you do when someone you love is Catholic, but isn’t getting married in the Church?

This is not just a “Catholic rules” question. It’s your son, daughter, grandson, granddaughter, or someone you deeply love. In this episode of Ask A Priest, Father Tim offers a compassionate way to discern whether or not to attend a wedding outside the Church.

Instead of falling into cold legalism or moral indifference, he invites us to look at the situation through the heart of Jesus. Are you upholding the Catholic truth of marriage? Are you causing a scandal? Are you creating more unity or more division?

There may not always be a simple yes or no answer, but there is always a way to stay close to Jesus, speak truth with love, and trust that He never abandons the people we love.

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